Thursday, October 24, 2013

Breathing Normal and Helping Children




So as I was on the plane this morning, I chuckled at the directions the flight attendant gave.  You know the little speech before every flight that we have heard so many times.  I must admit I rarely listen as I should.  I will also confess that I enjoy it when the flight attendant “hams” it up.  Sometimes a little “ham” gets my attention. 
It is the part of the speech about the yellow Dixie cup that is going to fall from the compartment above.  I have never had the experience and I am quite sure I do not really want it. However, there are two phrases that always make me chuckle.
“Continue breathing normal…”  Yeah right.  Like if the airplane is falling from the sky, I am going to be breathing normal.  No chance.  This person does not understand how fearful I am.  I begin breathing abnormally just walking by a roller coaster.  During times of high velocity and irregularity of direction, my body has already shifted into panic mode.  To be honest, I find myself in deep confession and rapid breathing.  The presence of a Dixie cup overhead will probably not aid me in continuing to breath normal.
I have experience a peace in the midst of a calm though.   It is a strange experience.  Right when life seemed to be crumbling around me, I knew what the Bible speaks of—peace that passes understanding.  I think it is a gift.  But it is a gift to be sought and opened.  It is a gift to be treasured.  It is the gift that gets us through. 
Then there is that line about if you are traveling with children, be sure and secure your Dixie cup before helping others.  One attendant put it this way.  “if you are traveling with small children, secure your own breathing device.  Then begin helping your children—starting with your most favorite child!”  I laughed out loud at that one!  I could see a parent pausing to deliberate—“now which child on this day do I want to save!”  Aw come on!  You know as a parent there are times when you really want to tell God they ran away and you don’t know where they are (even though you wanted to put them in a closet for while!)  You wonder what side of the genetic equation of your spouse’s family had created this little monster. 
So to help others, we first have to have our own breath (air).  I see so many parents struggling to teach children what they themselves never learned.  Take prayer for example.  Some parents do not know how to teach children how to pray because there is no discipline or practice of prayer in their life!  It reminds me of the car commercial of the father teaching his son how to throw the ball and the father has no clue as to how to do it.  So he commends the son for excellent throw because it resembles his own feeble attempt.
Maybe deeper practice and study in the disciplines of faith and holy habits would lead our children by example into that holy breathing of the Spirit of God.  Could the lack of commitment to Christ and to the body of Christ we see in our world today be a reflection of the poor practice of faith given?  Not in every case, but in many?  If so, what are you going to do about it?
Now some us have heard these things over and over again.  The speech is the same.  We may have even listened more intently when the preacher “hamed” it up.  But when the moment comes—the Dixie cups fall from the compartment of life—will we know what to do?   Will we have that peace that passes understanding?
It is a gift---one to be sought and treasured.  Better air or drink that any Dixie cup will give.   Breathe normal and if you travel in life with children—continue breathing!
Pray for me as I pray for you.

In the Master’s Name,
Dr. M. Jack O’Dell

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